Can You Trust Thai Girls?
Whether you are choosing to date Thai girls via the internet or maybe looking to meet Thai girls or ladies in the streets of Bangkok, Patong/Phuket or Pattaya – you need to believe that every girl is guilty until innocent.
By that we mean, 99 percent of the thai ladies you’ll meet or date will be after the security of your money or wallet, before the actual love your so keenly giving them.
There are however, various stages the thai girls go through and this will give you an idea of how ‘full-on’ they are in terms of scamming.
Lets take the popular spot of Phuket, more specifically Patong.
While a lot of tourists will visit Phuket for the honeymoons, getaways for couples or even backpacking trips – there are still many single men visiting Patong to meet a thai girl.
Now from the go-go bars and clubs along Bangla Rd through to the back alleys in and around Patong – the risks of meeting a girl taking you for a ride are huge.
You can rarely trust a thai girl working in these kind of situations.
Such is the drive for money, and easy money for the girls given their hard lives in the either the streets or remote farms – earning $60 USD for a few hours a nite with a man is very easy work.
Now where the distrust originates from is the bar and nite life they are introduced to at such a young age.
When a thai girl say 18 years old is offered work in a bar, she’ll arrive from the farm not knowing much about the world – however, quickly the older girls will show her the ropes and she’ll delve into the world of alcohol, drinks and go-go bars with barfines, and men from all around the world.
A girl at 18 once she is introduced to the latest music, offered gifts daily and toys like iphones, necklaces and cameras – how could they not love the life?
Now even if a girl meets a genuine man, who she cares for – who wishes to take her away from bar scene and Bangla Rd nightlife and even pay her a monthly wage to keep her happy – what could go wrong?
Well, you see the girl is so used to going out every night with her thai girlfriends, drinking cheaply (or sometimes free) and dancing the night away to the latest Top40 music in the popular Patong Bars and Nightclubs.
While some people pitty their lives.
In some cases the girls are living the dream, they are earning big dollars to party and live the life of a Penthouse Pet.
So this is the first consideration when looking to date a thaigirl.
Always suspect the worst. If you are looking for or seeking the best thai girl friend, then be prepared for heartache in some cases and even for genuine relationships, the thai culture is to show security through payment and support first then the love comes second.
Its a maze that many farang or white man has gotten lost in (and lost lots of money in thailand too!)
Checkout the book ‘Private Dancer’ which is an ideal guide to the red light district in Thailand and how easy it is for a man to get wrapped up in a thai girl and trust her totally when essentially the wallet was being drained.
There are plenty of free guides to dating thai women and even private investigator services to see if your thai girl friend is cheating on you or being unfaithful – simple web searches will bring up cases studies and stories of men from all around the world who have been robbed of a fortune in the Thai nightlife jungle.
