Asian Wife
There are many stories regarding western men spending time with Asian women and trying to ultimately find an asian wife.
What is the great attraction for western men towards asian women.
A few points spring to mind initially, in most cases, asian women are quieter, have a smaller figure that they can usually keep for longer in their lives and they know how to please a partner.
Now of course, there is a lot of generalising going on here – but even a few western women would agree this is the case for the most part.
It’s interesting to look at a western man / asian woman marriage from a family or racial point of view. In many cases, sadly inter-racial marriages are frowned upon. But from the asian perspective, certainly in the poorer nations, the family generally encourages a relationship with a western man – because they believe most (if not all) westerners are rich.
This is obviously a mis-guided conception, but given some of the poorer asian nations – they do look upon even the poorest western person as having more opportunity and better quality of life in many instances.
Certainly when you take the poorer SE Asian regions such as Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand etc.
(There are many stories on the internet about Thai brides, horror stories and also stories of happiness.)
But does an asian wife and a western groom really work?
If you can get past the 2 major problems, then yes – it can work.
While you might not get the nagging of a western wife, the dominance of a western wife (both bonuses!) you do get the constant ’support’ drain around money.
Now many will say, a western wife will spend money just as fast – but for an asian wife (from a poorer background) they have little opportunity to earn anything for themselves (in the western world, without training and education) and hence heavily rely on the male for payment.
This payment will also be required to be sent back to the asian girls family. And in most cases it can be a bottomless pit.
As with any agreement, marriage or arrangement – one side can take advantage. When you look at some asian wives, certainly from the thai ladies perspective – you get a good looking girl that can attract a range of men and with her beauty spell can suddenly have anywhere from 5-10 men sending money regularly.
From a males perspective, with an asian girlfriend or wife – he could abuse the position of power or money and treat the partner as a employee more than anything – which is horrible.
As with any dating, marriage or hookup – they are frought with danger but can also be lovely and enjoyable. Common-sense it the best weapon for dating women, not just asian women, but any females. However, sometimes when your heart is stolen by a beautiful person – your judgement is clouded.
So look out those on the hunt for love!
